I LEARN THE ART OF POSITIVE SPEAKING
Let me examine my topics of small talk. Any sort of conversation, after all, revolve around three themes
1. Things
2. Persons
3. Events
What range, beyond the said topics, do we, poor human beings have with regards to conversation? Even as being restricted to this poor narrow range of topics what sort do I deal regularly with? Crimes? Violence? ..
How do I evaluate things? Do negative criticisms help me in any way? Mostly not. Why ,then, I get involve myself and others in such negative sort of conversations and lay our time waste!
I dare to ask it loud to myself
· Why don’t I discuss only the positive aspects of the daily happenings?-I mean, the good news.
· I can’t help reading negative news items but every bad situation and news has something positive in it. Even a stopped clock shows correct time twice a day! Why, then, my eyes revolve around negative aspects of life? Why don’t I think positive; speak positive things that hearten the hearts of the listeners?
summary
If simon can’t say something good about someone or something that either keeps on or brings all smiles back on the face of his listeners Simon’d better keep his mouth shut!
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